During middle school years, most youths begin to interact with the opposite sex and spend a significant amount of time in mixed-gender groups that intensify their romantic interest and may lead to romantic relationships (Connolly, Craig, Goldberg, & Pepler, 2004). Early experiences in relationships play an important role in the lives of young adolescents; they have lasting effects on their self-esteem as well as help to shape their personal values regarding romance, intimate relationships, and sexuality (Barber & Eccles, 2003). These early healthy relationships prove to be beneficial as these young adolescents develop later into adulthood. Below is a list of the positive benefits of young adolescent relationships and possible reasons why youths are drawn to the dating scene.

Identity. During the beginning of adolescence, one of the most important developing tasks is forming an identity. These are the years when young people begin to form and refine their own personal values and it is when they begin to shape their goals for the future. Relationships with family and friends are one of the key connections that help facilitate these factors. However, young romantic relationships can also assist young adolescents in this process of understanding who they are and what they value. (Sorenson, 2007)

Interpersonal Skills. Young romantic relationships can also provide a training ground for developing interpersonal skills. Through their experiences in dating, adolescents

·         Often refine their communication and negotiation skills

·         Develop empathy

·         Learn how to maintain intimate relationships

The ups and downs of relationships can also facilitate youths to learn important skills such as

·         Developing emotional resiliency

·         Learning to cope

Although breakups at young ages can also result in depression for some youths, resiliency and learning to cope can help young adolescents to face difficulties later in life. (Barber & Eccles, 2003).